Adding a little BDSM to your daily sex life can lead to a fresh, exciting experience, and handcuffing, as an entry-level prop, is not only easy to get into, but also delivers a full-on thrill. In most countries, bondage sex toys have become one of the most popular bed toys, second only to erotic toys and lubricants.
If you and your partner are interested in the “lock and key” play, then you may want to try the following handcuffs sex positions after the safe design, to help you easily unlock a more intimate, more interesting sexual experience.
1.A dominant cowgirl (seated + bondage)
This is a variation of the classic woman-on-top position for couples who like to dominate and be dominated in role play. The bound party sits in a chair with her hands cuffed to the back of the chair, and the dominant party rides on top of her, facing each other for intimacy.
Highlights: restricting the other’s freedom allows the dominant party more room to tease and take control. Further deepen the connection through eyes and movement.
Tips: Use a stable and comfortable chair, and practice the position without handcuffs for the first time. If the chair is hard, consider using soft handcuffs to increase comfort.
2.Queen of Bondage (Female Face Sitting + Handcuffs)
Inspired by “Face Sitting”, the receiving partner lies on the bed with her hands secured to the head of the bed. The dominant partner sits on her face with her hands secured to the head of the bed. The dominant partner sits on her face with her feet facing the direction of her feet, enjoying the full range of pleasure.
Highlights: Creates an atmosphere of absolute domination and submission, allowing the passive partner to immerse themselves in the sensual experience of being “totally in control”.
Tips: Communication is especially important, non-verbal safety signals can be agreed upon (such as shaking the head or lightly touching the legs) to ensure that the process of mutual safety and comfort.
3.Peach Pose (Rear Entry + Bondage)
The receiver is on all fours, with her hips high in the air and her hands tied behind her back or to a belt, forming a stable “peach” shape.
Highlights: The sexy lines of the body are displayed and the sensitive rear hole is perfectly open, allowing the active partner to be in control. Use a wearable dildo or the Rose Vibrator with vibrator for double stimulation and the ultimate orgasm.
Tip: A flat surface is ideal for comfort, and a spreader bar can be used to keep your legs open for increased stimulation. If you are not used to tying your wrists, you can use your wrists with a belt to reduce pressure.
4.above the moon (lying on the back + full-body bondage)
Choose a flat place, so that the bound party lying on their backs, hands above their heads tied, ankles can be tied together or fixed on the table legs. The dominant party can then sit on their knees or lie on their back for intimate interaction.
Highlights: Ideal for sensitive areas such as breast and clitoral stimulation, and a popular position among lesbian couples. Sensitive areas are able to be fully exposed, and the use of props allows for the full development of the erogenous button. For example, use rose toys to stimulate the tips of the breasts, or use rose suction cups to stimulate the clitoris and increase interaction with your partner.
Tip: Adding props such as blindfolds and nipple clamps can enhance sensory deprivation and pleasure levels. Flat surfaces need to be secured to avoid falling off balance.
5.Pretzel (Side Lying + Half Wrapped)
The bound party is lying on its side, curled up in a fetal position, ankles cuffed, and the dominant party is on one knee and entering from the rear, similar to the bent wrapped position of a “pretzel”.
Highlights: Apply lubricant for a deeper penetration experience while creating a tightly wrapped compression to enhance emotional connection.
Tip: Soft silicone restraints are recommended to avoid metal cuffs pressing against the skin and to enhance comfort. This position does not require a lot of body softness and is perfect for beginners or plus-size partners to try.
6.Shiba Spoon (Spooning + Rope Bondage)
Two people lie close together on their sides, with the receiving partner’s wrists, forearms, thighs, and ankles tied to create a strong sense of bondage. This is a pose that incorporates the Japanese art of rope bondage, emphasizing intimacy and ritual.
Highlights: The bound partner will feel the pleasure of having their body molded into a work of art, making it an excellent way to explore emotional depth and sensual pleasure.
Tips: If you’re not good at complicated knots, try a simplified version of bondage (e.g., wrist to thigh). Be sure to have special safety scissors on hand in case you need to untie yourself in an emergency.
Safety first, communication first
When using handcuffs or other bondage props, be sure to observe the following principles:
Communicate ahead of time: Determine what is acceptable to both parties, what are the boundaries, what are the preferences, and the correct vocabulary (avoid abusive language).
Be prepared: Use safety scissors and soft bondage tools to avoid prolonged pressure on blood vessels or nerves.
Respect feelings: If one partner feels uncomfortable, stop immediately. The core of handcuff sex is consensual and pleasurable.
Conclusion: handcuff sex can increase couples’ excitement
Through different handcuff sex positions, couples can explore more ways to interact, enhance emotional connection, and open up a more creative intimate journey. As long as respect and safety are the premise, you can rest assured that you can boldly unlock the private world that belongs to you.
