Did you know that your sex life doesn’t have to revolve around penetration to be considered “normal sex”? Sure, penile penetration of the vagina (or penile penetration of the anus) can be exciting, but there are many other ways to share pleasure, such as masturbating together.
Masturbating each other may not sound like the sexiest thing in the world, but don’t let it fool you! It’s exciting and satisfying, and the benefits are numerous. This article will tell you all the reasons why you love masturbating together, and provide tons of mutual masturbation positions for you to try.
What is mutual masturbation?
Mutual masturbation is when you and your partner masturbate together. This sexual act doesn’t require the act of genital penetration to occur; using your hands or sex toys to help each other release their desires, and gazing at each other, kissing, or even touching each other in the process counts as completing mutual masturbation!
What are the benefits of mutual masturbation?
Higher safety: the risk of pregnancy or contracting sexually transmitted diseases is greatly reduced when there is no exchange of bodily fluids.
Be aware of each other’s physical reactions: watching how the other person pleases themselves helps you understand your partner’s sensitive spots and preferences.
Increase the probability of orgasm: Especially for women, clitoral stimulation with adult products such as rose toys is more likely to lead to orgasm than mere penetration.
Achieve synchronized orgasms: Allow each other to observe each other, synchronize rhythms, and climb to orgasm together in the most intimate moments.
Increase emotional intimacy: as a new way for partners to explore their sexuality and get closer to each other.
6 Mutual Masturbation Positions Worth Trying
Whether this is the first time you’ve heard of mutual masturbation or you’ve been mulling it over for a long time, we’ve got you covered! Here are six exciting mutual masturbation positions to try and see which one works best for you and your partner.
1. Kneeling face-to-face: a gentle, intimate exploration
Both partners sit face-to-face on the bed or floor and touch each other’s and their bodies. Gaze while enjoying the wandering fingers. Sucking toys can also be used to enhance the pleasure, for example, one partner can use a rose toy to turn on the powerful sucking mode to stimulate the clitoral area or penis, and it can also be placed on the partner’s nipples to be sucked. With the other partner watching and kissing, the atmosphere becomes intimate and sexy. Eye contact is the key and is suitable for partners who are new to mutual masturbation.
2. Sit apart: dominate with vision
You can sit at opposite ends of the couch, facing each other, some distance apart, each masturbating and maintaining eye contact. The visual stimulation of focusing on each other’s bodies and reactions is very powerful. You can further enhance the mood by describing the sensations verbally, such as “You look so sexy like that. Suitable for couples who like to watch and perform.
3. Close proximity: teasing the limits without penetration
One person lies down and the other sits across his or her lap without penetration. The two can get close to each other, feel the heat of their bodies and rub against each other to create intense sexual tension. This position is especially good for couples who aren’t ready for penetration, and is also good for teasing and warming up.
Matching lubricant can enhance the friction pleasure.
4. Remote control flirting: experience the power play
One partner uses a remote control vibrator while the other holds the remote control in their hand. You can sit in the same room, or even different rooms, and adjust the rhythm and play with the pleasure through the remote control. This is especially good if you’re in a long-distance relationship, or if you’re in the same space, you can combine it with “command masturbation” to enhance the sense of dominance. The person in control will experience a mesmerizing sense of pleasure and mastery.
5. BDSM for Beginners: Collar + Leash
Want to try something a little “badass”? Have the submissive partner wear a collar and the dominant partner hold the leash and give instructions: how to masturbate, when to orgasm, etc. This is a great position for those who want to try a little bit of BDSM. This position is great for couples who want to try light BDSM. As long as boundaries are communicated and a safe word is agreed upon, it’s safe to explore. It is recommended to start with a leash made of soft material to avoid discomfort.
6. Standing up and clapping: a bold position with escalating stimulation
One person lies on the bed with legs spread while the other stands above the head, leaning in to kiss and touch, providing sensual stimulation while each masturbates. The person below can explore their body with a vibrator or hand, while the person above enjoys the dual pleasure of sight and control.
Easily transitioning to oral sex, this is a highly interactive position.
Recommended Pairing Toys
Rose Sucker: 10 vibration modes, air-pulse technology, designed for the clitoris, realistically simulates oral sex.It is the most popular rose toy for women.
Rose Vibrator Vibrator: with dildo, sucking function for dual stimulation, suitable for dual vaginal and anal use.
Remote controllable anal plug toy: suitable for couples who play with power control or off-site interaction, full of surprises.
Conclusion: Enjoyment is the true meaning of mutual masturbation
No matter which position you choose, in each other’s communication to confirm, wholeheartedly into the process of mutual masturbation, in order to let each other feel the satisfaction of sex. While you are enjoying yourselves, don’t make orgasm your only goal. The intimacy, exploration and fun of the process is what makes mutual masturbation truly fascinating.
